it’s funny how when ur hangin out with people who think ur straight and they suddenly say something really heteronormative to u and ur just like “lol, ye s. i the straight person. the straight person that is me. me. straight.”
Single best photo of Stevie, the end. <3
John looking for a bar on shore, before we miss “Happy Hour”.
i have no problem with pointing out that anyone of any gender can be an abuser, rapist, pedophile etc because that’s absolutely true.
but the problem with always emphasizing “yes but it happens to everyone, not just women (or people of colour, or trans* people, etc)!” is that it depoliticizes the issue.
violence is not an accident, it is reflective of social power relations that permeate society at every level
last night i dreamed that scientists used a really bad picture of me to prove humans are closely related to goats and i was so insulted i woke up
age difference couples where the older one is an excitable little child and the younger one is a cranky ol’ granny